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We find a little bit of justice in the world of child support.

Joe, Milwaukee: Joe is suffering from the "yo-yo" syndrome as the girl that was once interested is now playing with his emotions and time.

"The 10 Conversations You Must Have Before You Get Married" is a book that dominates the whole segment. There are a few weak points but mainly it's a book that Doc is recommending to any guy getting married soon.

Observation: He got the girl with THE SYSTEM and then lost her by not adhering to it's principles.

Tir, San Bernadino: "I want time apart" was what she said to him. Tir wants her back. Doc says with that statement that it's impossible.

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Celebrity File: Madonna and Kristen Bell describe the type of men they want and the guys are right out of THE SYSTEM.

Ray, Lanexa: He questions a line in Doc's latest article that states that you should never define a relationship early on. He wants to know why.

What Do Women Want: Judy watched "Doc Love At Venice Beach" at www.doclove.com and saw Doc ask a group of women what they would change about men. Judy tells us what she would change and it's quite interesting.

You Changed My Life: A mental health counselor that is also a college instructor pursuing his doctorate thinks THE SYSTEM should be in every college curriculum.

Brainwashing: Women freak out for no reason according to this article. The article shows you how to deal with this. Doc wonders why you'd even want to be around a woman that freaks out for no reason.

MySpace: There is a joke bulletin floating around entitled "Five Rules For Men To Live A Happy Life" that you'll enjoy.

Robbie, Auckland: Where and when should he be pursuing home phone numbers?

You Changed My Life: Tim dated 40 bad apples as he calls them before he found a good one. His letter points to the PATIENCE that SYSTEM students must have.

Brainwashing: USA Magazine quotes a WOMAN'S RIGHTS expert for custody issues that directly impacts MEN'S RIGHTS. We're still scratching our heads on this one.

Brainwashing: "Fighting Your Spouse Can Be Good For Your Health" according to a way off-base article that a student found for us.

Brainwashing: Say "I love you" at least 4x per day if you want the spark back in your relationship. This only works for parrots.

Brainwashing: An article teaches women how to cancel dates at the last minute. You have to hear this nonsense.

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Celebrity File: Why does Enrique Iglesias keep begging Anna Kournikova to marry him and what makes Owen Wilson and Sean Penn think they can go back to broken relationships?

Interest Level: Former prison guard helps inmates escape. She's obviously scores low on the integrity scale but has 100% interest level.

Did you know you could be sued in South Carolina for stealing someone else's spouse if a bizarre new law is passed?

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Celebrity File: Carrie Underwood now knows heartbreak since she broke up with her man and the Governor of Nevada had to leave his own residence.

Paul Newman: Practices THE SYSTEM in a movie Doc found.

Men's Health: If you want muscles but want to be a loser with women, read Men's Health. Jimmy The Bartender is back giving HORRIBLE love advice to men. He tells a guy how to win over his girlfriend's brothers and tells another man how he should break it to his buddy that he shouldn't ask his girlfriend to marry him. Find out why Jimmy should stick to pouring drinks instead of giving love advice.

Braden, Toronto: What are the rules for dating an ex-girlfriend's best friend?

Ben: You Changed My Life Letter.

Dear Abby Brainwashing: She wants to take a break from the romance and Abby advises him to stay in the game. You can't believe how BAD this advice is.

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Celebrity File: What made Maria Schriver fall for Arnie? How is it that Jessica Simpson would barely watch ESPN while with Nick Lachey but attends the NFL Draft with new beau Tony Romo?

You Changed My Life: Getting his heart stomped was the norm for him but not now thanks to THE SYSTEM.

Matthew, Santa Rosa: His new girl is graduating and moving away soon. How can he raise interest level in a few short weeks? Should he even try? Doc says no.

Neil, Vancouver: How long should it take for a woman to ask you to be exclusive with her?

Brainwashing, Andrea Sachs (Book Reviewer for Time): Like the Carolyn Hax example from segment 2, she causes conflict where none exists.

Interesting Observations & Brainwashing: Woman with a boyfriend spoke about ANOTHER guy that she's into and it's implied in a movie that being reluctant to tell someone you love them is a sign of immaturity.

The bad and the good close out the show. Bad: A 5 year old kid is being told by his mother that she's going to divorce his father. Good: 5 signs she's into you (excellent advice from a woman writer for once)

Two cartoons that are hurting men's causes and a guy that had THE SYSTEM and still married the WRONG WOMAN.

What are women attracted to?

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You May Now "Kick" The Bride: Hear the crazy story of newlyweds hauled off to jail on their wedding night for brawling plus our friend Dr. Warren from eHarmony is at it again with bad advice.

Chris, Connecticut: Can you substitute a bar for Starbucks on the initial meeting or is that a no-no?

Observation: 2 guys. Friends. Both read THE SYSTEM. One guy thinks its bs and keeps getting in trouble. The other one isn't confused by women.

Observation: Continued.

Mike, Orange: How do you respond when a woman talks about an ex?

Yahoo Personals Brainwashing: We continue on with Lauren's 10 first date tips for men from the 2nd segment.

Dear Abby Brainwashing: She's got an old diary filled up with stories about her exes. He's got old pictures of girlfriends. Find out what Abby says about it then listen for Doc's take (which is different than Abby's. Surprise, surprise).

Brainwashing: Doc's student passed a billboard for a jewelry company selling men on the idea of buying stuff for their ladies that said "Make her ex-boyfriend even more jealous." An interesting take is brought out here.

Mark, Hampton: Been with her for 5 months and she's got too much baggage. How should he back out of the relationship?

You Changed My Life: Jim found a good girl after a "zillion coffee dates."

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Celebrity File: Ashton Kutcher said what??? And, Ed McMahon is in financial trouble after a lifetime of success due in part to poor decisions with women.

Remember the "Dear Abby" brainwashing we had last week where we advocated telling a woman to get rid of stuff relating to her ex? A lot of you wrote in that we were telling guys to be whiny but not so fast, says Doc.

We continue our discussion on "ex's."

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Celebrity File: Brian Williams of NBC News has some (bad) advice on women. Stick to reading the news, Brian. Also, the continuing saga of the NV Governor who was thrown out of his own mansion in a domestic dispute.

Dave, Vancouver: She's out of town for a week, back for a few days and then out again for multiple weeks. He just got the number. How should he proceed?

You Changed My Life: She emailed him 1.5 years into their marriage just to let him know that "she loves being his wife."

If you check out the cash for gold commercial you'll see some SERIOUS men-bashing in it.

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Celebrity File: Looks like 50 Cent picked the wrong woman since she allegdly burned his multimillion dollar house down.

Men Bashing.... Example 1: Judge Maria Lopez asks that anyone that's ever been taken advantage of by a MAN to please call the show. How about just saying if ANYONE took advantage of you? Why does it have to be a man? Example 2: Bumper sticker Doc saw. "All men are idiots and I married the king." Lovely, eh?

Yahoo Personals, continued...

Observation: A gentleman contends that 3 years of THE SYSTEM has altered how he interprets things in the world now, for the better.

Daniel, Baltimore: How often should you open the car door for a woman?

You Changed My Life: Listen to this inspiring story of a man that found the perfect girl for him

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Celebrity File: Mario Lopez has graced our files as a guy that makes mistakes but listen to how he got it right this time with the way he handled his latest breakup.

You Changed My Life: Listen to how THE SYSTEM changed a guy's life

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Celebrity File: Canadian Singer Michael Buble broke up with his girlfriend and there was an article that stated they were BOTH torn up over the breakup. Find out why Doc thinks this is a lie.

Brainwashing: Rules for dating beautiful women from Match.com.

Lists: Lots of lists to help men improve. Where are the lists for women?

Angel: He's been back and forth with her 3x. Find out why he should have cut it off after breakup #1

We finish out the lists that we started in segment 1.

You Changed My Life: The guy has TOO MANY women. Is that even possible?

Robert, Milpitas: Should middle age men color their gray hair?

Brainwashing (Men's Health): Even though they've been dating for months everytime he goes away on business he's nearly a stranger to her when he gets back. As you may guess the advice that Men's Health and Doc offer, differ quite a bit.

Rod, Spokane: He's mostly a positive guy but sometimes he talks negative. How can he break himself of that habit?

You've broken up and yet she's going to keep the engagement ring. What can you do? Avoid these types of women in the first place!