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We find a little bit of justice in the world of child support.

Joe, Milwaukee: Joe is suffering from the "yo-yo" syndrome as the girl that was once interested is now playing with his emotions and time.

Joe, Milwaukee: Continued.

Observation: He got the girl with THE SYSTEM and then lost her by not adhering to it's principles.

Tir, San Bernadino: "I want time apart" was what she said to him. Tir wants her back. Doc says with that statement that it's impossible.

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Celebrity File: Madonna and Kristen Bell describe the type of men they want and the guys are right out of THE SYSTEM.

Ray, Lanexa: He questions a line in Doc's latest article that states that you should never define a relationship early on. He wants to know why.

What Do Women Want: Judy watched "Doc Love At Venice Beach" at www.doclove.com and saw Doc ask a group of women what they would change about men. Judy tells us what she would change and it's quite interesting.

You Changed My Life: A mental health counselor that is also a college instructor pursuing his doctorate thinks THE SYSTEM should be in every college curriculum.

Brainwashing: Women freak out for no reason according to this article. The article shows you how to deal with this. Doc wonders why you'd even want to be around a woman that freaks out for no reason.

MySpace: There is a joke bulletin floating around entitled "Five Rules For Men To Live A Happy Life" that you'll enjoy.

Robbie, Auckland: Where and when should he be pursuing home phone numbers?

You Changed My Life: Tim dated 40 bad apples as he calls them before he found a good one. His letter points to the PATIENCE that SYSTEM students must have.

Brainwashing: USA Magazine quotes a WOMAN'S RIGHTS expert for custody issues that directly impacts MEN'S RIGHTS. We're still scratching our heads on this one.

Brainwashing: "Fighting Your Spouse Can Be Good For Your Health" according to a way off-base article that a student found for us.

Brainwashing: Say "I love you" at least 4x per day if you want the spark back in your relationship. This only works for parrots.

Brainwashing: An article teaches women how to cancel dates at the last minute. You have to hear this nonsense.

Men's Health: If you want muscles but want to be a loser with women, read Men's Health. Trying to move on from a breakup? DON'T follow Men's Health on this one.

Aaron, Richmond: "I don't like to kiss" was the response he got on the 3rd date with her. Yet, she says she still likes him. Find out how THE SYSTEM has helped save Aaron lots of time and money.

What can you learn from studying a 2-year old? How does it relate to THE SYSTEM?

Daniel, Little Rock: Find out why Doc recommends that Daniel STAY OFF sites like Facebook and MySpace if he wants to be successful with women.

Daniel, Little Rock: Continued.

John, Philadelphia: Just met a new girl but is not sure that he wants to start a relationship with her.

Men's Health: If you want muscles but want to be a loser with women, read Men's Health. Jimmy The Bartender is back giving HORRIBLE love advice to men. He tells a guy how to win over his girlfriend's brothers and tells another man how he should break it to his buddy that he shouldn't ask his girlfriend to marry him. Find out why Jimmy should stick to pouring drinks instead of giving love advice.

Braden, Toronto: What are the rules for dating an ex-girlfriend's best friend?

Ben: You Changed My Life Letter.

Dear Abby Brainwashing: She wants to take a break from the romance and Abby advises him to stay in the game. You can't believe how BAD this advice is.

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Celebrity File: What made Maria Schriver fall for Arnie? How is it that Jessica Simpson would barely watch ESPN while with Nick Lachey but attends the NFL Draft with new beau Tony Romo?

You Changed My Life: Getting his heart stomped was the norm for him but not now thanks to THE SYSTEM.

Matthew, Santa Rosa: His new girl is graduating and moving away soon. How can he raise interest level in a few short weeks? Should he even try? Doc says no.

Neil, Vancouver: How long should it take for a woman to ask you to be exclusive with her?

Brainwashing, Andrea Sachs (Book Reviewer for Time): Like the Carolyn Hax example from segment 2, she causes conflict where none exists.

Interesting Observations & Brainwashing: Woman with a boyfriend spoke about ANOTHER guy that she's into and it's implied in a movie that being reluctant to tell someone you love them is a sign of immaturity.

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Celebrity File: Mario Lopez is not helping himself with comments in a recent interview.

Sayed, San Francisco: He feels his girlfriend's interest level is going down but he shouldn't be in the relationship in the first place. Find out why.

Can you believe that there is a guy paying women to date him? The more they go out with him, the more they get paid. Pathetic.

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You May Now "Kick" The Bride: Hear the crazy story of newlyweds hauled off to jail on their wedding night for brawling plus our friend Dr. Warren from eHarmony is at it again with bad advice.

Chris, Connecticut: Can you substitute a bar for Starbucks on the initial meeting or is that a no-no?

Observation: 2 guys. Friends. Both read THE SYSTEM. One guy thinks its bs and keeps getting in trouble. The other one isn't confused by women.

Observation: Continued.

John, Salt Lake City: What is too big an age gap? He dated a woman 10 years his junior and is concerned that was too big of a stretch.

Peter, Vancouver: He's been out on about 4 dates with a co-worker. She turned her head on a date when he went in for a kiss but then asked him out for another date. Mixed signals for sure. What should Peter do?

Brainwashing: What do you do when your lady sides with a 5 year old over you?

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Celebrity File: Listen for a SYSTEM parallel from the Clinton campaign and Kate Hudson said something that is just not true.

Anticipation is often the best part of romance. Find out what we mean by that.

Jerry, Toronto: He blew it when she said "why don't you give me your number" when he asked for the home phone number. She ended up giving him the number a month later but Doc said it's now a clean up case and it didn't need to be if Jerry had done things right from the beginning.

Jerry, Toronto: Continued

Yahoo Personals Brainwashing: Lauren's 10 first date tips for men. Some are ok. Some will really hurt your cause.

Mike, Orange: How do you respond when a woman talks about an ex?

Yahoo Personals Brainwashing: We continue on with Lauren's 10 first date tips for men from the 2nd segment.

Dear Abby Brainwashing: She's got an old diary filled up with stories about her exes. He's got old pictures of girlfriends. Find out what Abby says about it then listen for Doc's take (which is different than Abby's. Surprise, surprise).

Brainwashing: Doc's student passed a billboard for a jewelry company selling men on the idea of buying stuff for their ladies that said "Make her ex-boyfriend even more jealous." An interesting take is brought out here.

Mark, Hampton: Been with her for 5 months and she's got too much baggage. How should he back out of the relationship?

You Changed My Life: Jim found a good girl after a "zillion coffee dates."

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Celebrity File: Ashton Kutcher said what??? And, Ed McMahon is in financial trouble after a lifetime of success due in part to poor decisions with women.

Remember the "Dear Abby" brainwashing we had last week where we advocated telling a woman to get rid of stuff relating to her ex? A lot of you wrote in that we were telling guys to be whiny but not so fast, says Doc.

John, Toronto: John wants Doc to correct his lack of self-control with women.

Ray, Edmonton: He's giving her 10 grand worth of trinkets but she still won't go out with him. Ray is confused but won't be after talking to Doc.

John, Philadelphia: Got her number in class. Should he wait 5-9 days to call her even though he's going to see her in class again?

Brainwashing: Miss Manners has advice for a guy that has an ex that treats him like dirt. We don't even get to the stupid advice she has but use this to illustrate how important it is to lose the number of your ex.

George, Toronto: Just had a coffee date with her and now he needs to leave town on business for a few weeks. How should he handle it?

Mike, Fresno: How do you deal with a relationship after the initial passion has worn off?

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Celebrity File: Brian Williams of NBC News has some (bad) advice on women. Stick to reading the news, Brian. Also, the continuing saga of the NV Governor who was thrown out of his own mansion in a domestic dispute.

Dave, Vancouver: She's out of town for a week, back for a few days and then out again for multiple weeks. He just got the number. How should he proceed?

You Changed My Life: She emailed him 1.5 years into their marriage just to let him know that "she loves being his wife."

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Celebrity File: Justin Timberlake gets it right on national TV and Charlize Theron and other celebs say it's ok if the guy looks at other women and flirts?

Josh, Portland: She had a boyfriend but now he's out. Josh wants in but doesn't want to be the "rebound guy." How should he handle it?

Idiot File: She's been married 4x by the AGE OF 24.

Gary, Fresno: The SYSTEM protects you from ending up with the wrong woman so is it still necessary to sign a pre-nup with her?

Advanced SYSTEM Thinking: Scars and Baggage explained.

Jon, Philadelphia: He waited 9 days to call her. How did she react? "I'm glad to hear from you. I was hoping you would call." If anyone thinks the SYSTEM doesn't work need only listen to Jon.

Brad, Costa Mesa: Why do nice guys fail more often than not?

Doc Love Mail (doclove@wsradio.com): Jacob from the UK wants to know what he should think about a girl eyeing up a guy on the street during their 4th date.

Brainwashing.......
Dear Abby: The guy treats her well but won't say he's in love. Abby's advice? Dump him, of course. She'd obviously rather the woman was with a guy that treated her like crap but parrots "I love you" all the time.

10 Fatal Online Dating Errors by Yahoo Personals: Most are good..................but a couple will really HURT YOU

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Celebrity File: Mario Lopez is messing up by bringing women around his family too soon.

How To Lose Points: One guy didn't celebrate their anniversary and the other left her to fend for herself crossing the streeet. In both cases they weren't acting like gentlemen that a woman would want to keep.

Mike, Orange: Why is it bad to leave a message?

Matthew, Toronto: Can you build a relationship when you only get to see her once per month?

Jeff, Mountain: She's going to school in the southern part of CA soon and they live in the northern part of CA. Frequently they travel back and forth but will it be enough to sustain a relationship?

Observation: She was "insulted" that he tried to kiss her but she would allow him to hold hands. Listen to this amusing letter by a SYSTEM student that didn't waste any further time on her.

Jay, San Mateo: She couldn't make the day and time he asked her for but then she countered. All good right? Except she didn't show up for the date. Bye-bye!

Daniel, Baltimore: How often should you open the car door for a woman?

You Changed My Life: Listen to this inspiring story of a man that found the perfect girl for him

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Celebrity File: Mario Lopez has graced our files as a guy that makes mistakes but listen to how he got it right this time with the way he handled his latest breakup.

You Changed My Life: Listen to how THE SYSTEM changed a guy's life

Advanced SYSTEM Thinking: Say you never want to get married or have kids. The long term aspects of THE SYSTEM don't apply to you because you'll never end up in divorce court or have to pay alimony because you aren't going there. Or so you think. THE SYSTEM doesn't apply to you, right? WRONG, WRONG, WRONG. Listen to how even just DATING the wrong woman can negatively impact your life.

Kevin, Boston: Can you ever win someone back? He didn't know what he was doing, got THE SYSTEM after he lost the girl and now wants to know if he can re-approach her. Doc says NO. Find out why.

Match.com: Rules for dating a real good looking girl. Wait until you hear this.

Rod, Spokane: Wants to know how he can get tougher with women so they don't run over him.

Angel: Doc and I expand on Angel's situation.

Bill, Miami: He knew right away that she had low interest level. Find out how THE SYSTEM protects you from wasting too much time/money on non-interested women.

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Celebrity File: Gwen Stefani wears clothes that she thinks will impress her husband. Talk about high interest level!

Celebrity File: Carey Hart & Pink. Carey Hart misses his ex-wife Pink. Go figure.

Frank, Philadelphia: A newbie to THE SYSTEM makes some basic mistakes. Find out why calling her on a Friday and responding to her text right away were a big mistake.