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Brainwashing File-
Dear Abby misses the mark with a 22-year old guy. Find out how the advice could have legal implications. Also, a male love doctor's counsel will have you putting way too much pressure on a woman and make you appear too eager. Find out how he misses the mark.

Doc Love Mail (from doclove@wsradio.com)-
Justin from Columbus wants to know how to handle a woman that seems to be interested and even invites him out but has ended the last 2 dates abruptly.

Brainwashing File (continued) -
Dr. Phil is not helping your cause guys!

Find out what Doc picked out from the astronaut triangle story. No one else in the major media figured this angle out!

Brother Love comes straight out of the Dating Dictionary to ask how to approach women in groups.

Eva Longoria and Tony Parker seem to have a strong relationship on the surface....but find out what happens when Doc digs deepers.

When do you say "I love you?" If you listen to the advice from our brainwashing segment, it will be the last time you say it.

Believe it or not, Cosmopolitan Magazine is actually defending men. You'll be amazed at the positive nugget that Doc found.

Tom wants to know how to deal with a spoiled woman that seems to be able to find him no matter where he is.

Men's Health is supposedly a magazine for men, designed to help men. But this particular piece of advice on dating that Doc found will hurt your cause.

The Brainwashing File
eHarmony founder Dr. Neal Warren Clark is giving guys the wrong information on how to meet women on the internet in Doc's opinion.

One of Doc's students got a coaching session from a female love doctor. 8 out of 11 things she suggested were right on the money but numbers 9, 10, and 11 were way off. Find out why.

FOX News had a segment on "What men really want." We want, believe it or not, to be nagged more. You have to hear this to believe it guys.

How does a book "The Mastery of Love," a bad piece of advice from Dear Harlan and Doc's rule for how to accept exclusivity from a woman relate? The answer will surprise and help you.

Brainwashing File
Find out how Parade Columnist Ask Marilyn is making a major issue out of a woman's name after marriage and why it's bad for all guys.

Business Week misses the mark in their advice on how to approach dating someone at work. Loyal Student Letters
A dog whisperer writes in and brings up interesting parallels between training dogs and THE SYSTEM.

James supplies us with a YOU CHANGED MY LIFE LETTER.

What can guys learn from Brooke Shields recent statements about her marriage?
Brainwashing File
GQ is supposed to help guys but might get a 45-year old fired based on what they tell him to do with his 25-year old girlfriend at a company retreat, Nationally syndicated advice columnist (a frequent subject of this show) is at it again, hurting guy's causes and a MALE love doctor that supposedely is there to help men is actually off the mark with his advice on kidding, teasing and poking fun at women.

Alec Baldwin's meltdown. Or was it all his fault?

Redbook, Men's Health, MSN and something one of Doc's students found. Find out how "half-truths" in the major media are hurting your cause with women.

Richard, Hollywood FL: Do you kiss the woman back after she kisses you? Doc's response will surprise you (note, Richard had cell phone trouble so he calls back in the 4th segment to finish this topic up).

Brainwashing: Home Depot as a date location? How much is disclosed online? What is chemistry?

Ronnie, San Diego: What if a physical/mental abuser suddenly goes to the opposite extreme and becomes a wimp? Does the relationship end?

David, Seattle: What do you do when the woman's interest level is MUCH HIGHER than your own? Can you get it to her level or should you drop her?

Loyal Student Letter: There is a place in China that is just for women called "Woman's Town?"

Brainwashing File: Glamour says it's ok for women to repel office romance by telling men to "shove it" and with magazines like Redbook continually bashing men, it's no wonder Doc has plenty of brainwashing material.

Anthony, San Francisco: Wants how THE SYSTEM advises him to handle his girlfriend of 6 years that was caught in the backseat of a car with another man.

Loyal Student Andrew: Girlfriend moved over 2,000 miles and gave up a $30,000 scholarship to be with him. Find out why Andrew gives THE SYSTEM credit for this.

Celebrity File: Country singer Miranda Lambert has lyrics that promote violence against men and Jenny McCarthy's divorce was "6 years too late" according to her. Check what Doc has to say about each situation.

Brainwashing File: Men Bashing in America, article one of three.

Brainwashing File: Men Bashing in America, articles two and three of three.

Denise Richards and Richie Sambora plus an article in Men's Fitness. Listen as Doc takes these 2 things apart that he found in the major media this week. Remember guys, there is a lot in the major media that will hurt your cause with women. Always listen to Doc for the best advice.

Ed, Harrisburg: 2 years in and he's in love and thinks that she is too. Doc knows the relationship is going nowhere though. Find out why.

David, El Cajon, CA: On the 3rd date she asked if he was attracted to her. Instead of a straight answer David needs to employ what Doc calls "snappy answers to silly love questions." Find out how and why in this interesting call.

Nationally syndicated advice columnist Carolyn Hax (our favorite brainwasher) gives advice to hurt your cause in not one, but two articles this week. Listening to Ms. Hax will ensure you go nowhere with women-FAST.

You Changed My Life Letter, Ed: Gave up on women for 15 years (age 32 to 47) before finding Doc and now is enjoying more success than he has in years.

Celebrity File: Anne Heche is getting divorced. Surprise. Surprise.

Brainwashing File: A double shot from Dear Abby. She thinks she knows the secret to men and some bad advice on a guy that is a predator.

Vaughn, Nashville: How do you meet strangers in the year 2007 when everyone is so cautious?

Ludacris really does get THE SYSTEM and Time does men a dis-service by tying a Father's Day article to "Deadbeat Dads."

Business Week givesa guy the wrong advice on how to handle a female co-worker coming on strong.

Jack, Vancouver: The lady he's dating is beautiful and gets hit on all the time. Jack should know because she's continually telling him about the male attention she receives. Find out why this is a big red flag in Doc's world.

Dear Abby never mentions how wrong it is that a woman strung a guy along for a year and one of Doc's students has mastered Match.com thanks to THE SYSTEM.

Dr. Phil's attempt to cover up his own wimpy behavior.

Rich, Orlando: New to THE SYSTEM and can't seem to control himself around good looking women.

Dave, Vancouver: Should you go out on a Friday or Saturday early in the relationship even if the girl asks you? Doc says NO. Find out why.

13 keys to a perfect date by a Yahoo Personals advice columnist that's been on ABC, CBS, MTV, FOX and other big media outlets. 8 are great. 5 are horrible. More brainwashing in America.

Sancho, San Diego: How soon should you be around her kids?

Prince William and his lady Kate. Even a british monarch could use THE SYSTEM.

Bill, Dallas: Proves that you can never get sloppy EVER. Made a major error 9 dates in that could have cost him the relationship.

Money Magazine tells women "how to marry a billionaire." No mention of love in this highly mercenary article.

"How to marry a billionaire" continued and the woman that faked her own abduction to get out of a date!

You Changed My Life: THE SYSTEM allows you to identify when you have a good woman and keep her in love if you're lucky enough to find her in the first place.

Messing around with another man's wife landed an Illinois man in court when a little known "stolen affections" law was invoked.

Shawn, Phoenix: Wants to know if he made an error by telling his girlfriend's sister about the hundreds of women he's dated in the past.

Ladies Home Journal: Jealousy is a trait all married men should have. WHAT???!!!!

Brian, Ft. Lauderdale: What should you say in an initial email to a woman you're trying to interest on an Internet dating site?

Men's Health: How soon should you date the friend of your ex and more brainwashing.

David, Hong Kong: Why is it a red flag when a woman won't let you pick her up for a date?

Money Magazine: They say it's ok to get a girl a fake diamond until you can afford the real thing but Doc says this is a MAJOR error. Find out why.

Greg, Orange County, CA: Find out how Greg approached and was successful with a "10" he met at church utilizing THE SYSTEM.

Dr. Phil and his wife have to be in constant physical contact at home?

Glamour Magazine: "Jake, a Man's Opinion" says that women like a guy they have to fix rather than one that's already together. Find out why Doc thinks this is way off.

10 sure ways to get a 2nd date: #'s 3-10 are great but you'll never get that far if you follow #'s 1 and 2.

How to Succeed with Women: A new book filled with half-truths that will hurt your cause in dating.

Ian, London: When do you call a girl you're dating when she has to go out of town for an extended period of time. Also, how do you respond to her question of "Do you miss me?"

Johnny, Orlando: He moved in with a woman after 6 months. Find out why Doc says that's too soon.

Wes, England: All of a sudden his girlfriend of 2.5 years, who contacts him several times a day, is backing off. What should Wes do?

Hey Sherry: You should initiate contact with the woman. Doc says NO!

How To Get Your Girlfriend Back: Doc says it'd be better to title this "how NOT to get your girlfriend back."

Harry, Fairfax, VA: Examples of how NOT to approach women.

Dr. Phil: You've got to hear the story of the pathetic 2nd husband that can't figure out why his wife still wants the 1st husband.

Chad, Denver: Is it really important to have it together or can a woman "fix you up?"

Steve, Glen Falls: He has to continually leave messages because his girl won't pick up the phone. Problem? DEFINITELY.

Carolyn Hax: Our favorite columnist is at it again. What's the latest advice to hurt men? How to get an ex-girlfriend back after SHE'S DATING ANOTHER MAN. This is a real beauty.

The end of the show is a potential downer with BET promoting abuse in it's "Video Gospel" but we recover nicely by reading a "You Changed My Life" letter at the conclusion.

Celebrity File: Kevin Bacon and his wife plus Nicole Kidman and her husband.

Mark, Seattle: Wants to know what Doc's opinion on arranged marriages.

Barack Obama: His wife says he snores and stinks. Is this loving?

Men's Health: They should do health advice but not get into the area of love.

Men's Health: They should do health advice but not get into the area of love; Continued.

Darren, West Palm: Got stood up on a date. How should he proceed from here?

10 Things You Should Do On A Coffee Date: 8 are good and 2 are really bad.

Jared, Indianapolis: She broke a date AND she is talking to her ex-boyfriend again. Jared wants to figure out how to fix the situation that Doc says is beyond repair.