XDL Archives

Ethan Hawke: Had an affair and lost his relationship. You have to hear his reasoning behind it though. It will blow your mind.

Elle Magazine Brainwashing: The woman who writes into "Dear Jean" doesn't think it's enough that her boyfriend is sweet, loving and caring.

Other Love Doctor Brainwashing: A man writes in that he sent a gift with his number to a woman that he likes. As SYSTEM students know, this is WEAK but 2 love doctors weigh in on his gesture and SURPRISE, they think he did ok.

Russ, Kansas City: How do you guage a woman's interest level? While applying to her company, he got buying signals from the recruiter at a job fair he was at. What should Russ do? Doc says "NOTHING." Find out why.

Gift Giving: After 6 months of dating you should not only buy a girl a gift but tell her you like spending time with her. Gift giving is ok. Telling her you like spending time with her is not. Find out why.

Brendan, Spokane: How can you tell the difference between a shy woman and one that isn't interested?

Jim, Vancouver: He's had 3 dates with her and she's disappeared because she just had surgery. How should Jim contact her? What should he be doing?

You Changed My Life Letter: The SYSTEM helped a student in his karate training. Remember guys, The SYSTEM goes beyond dating. It helps in ALL aspects of your life.

Aerial, Everett: He and his buddy each met a girl and went out on a double date for their first date. MISTAKE. Find out why Doc says "no group dates."

Bob, Washington: If a woman has a child, does it matter that she gives you the cell number instead of her home number?