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Brainwashing File: 21 ways to make her fall in love with you. "Call the next day." "Tell her you can't wait to see her again." "Watch a sappy movie." This should be renamed "21 ways to guarantee she'll never love you." While all of it sounds good on the surface, it will greatly hurt your cause.

Vicious File: "He Had It Coming" is a new book by a woman that helps other women navigate divorce step-by-step. Don't you love the title?

Ego File #1: What happens when a guy rationalizes a female's behavior.

Ego File #2: His best friend bought THE SYSTEM for him as a gift but he didn't want it. Why? Too much ego.

Bryan, Columbia: He's dating a girl 40 miles away. Can he ask to meet her halfway for the first big date? Should he? Also, she deleted her profile from Yahoo Personals. Good sign?

Motivation File: No matter what always do one more thing. It's the people that continually apply extra effort that have the best chance to become winners. Get inspired by watching http://www.nc212movie.com (turn up your speakers).

Jeff, Seattle: A co-worker asked him to hang out. Another co-worker said she's sick of her boyfriend. 2 women that have kind of asked him out but not really and Jeff is in a slump. What should he do?

You Changed My Life: Tim loves the radio show and THE SYSTEM.

Pussycat File: What is a cougar? That's a younger man and an older woman. Can it work? Doc thinks no, but not for the reason you might think.