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Celebrity File: Mario Lopez has graced our files as a guy that makes mistakes but listen to how he got it right this time with the way he handled his latest breakup.

You Changed My Life: Listen to how THE SYSTEM changed a guy's life

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Celebrity File: Comic Robin Williams and Rap Mogul Russell Simmons have something in common. Their wives have had enough.....

Student Observations: 1. A married man relates THE SYSTEM to psychological concepts. 2. Another student wonders why people will study for their careers or hobbies but not relationships.

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Several things about trust & adultery: *Elder Wisdom Circle (like a Dear Abby): Who's fault is it when a woman cheats? Elder wisdom and Doc disagree. *Moment of Truth: New game show. Lauren really sticks it to her husband on national TV. *Alan Jackson/Wife: He had an affair and things will never be the same as far as her interest level goes. *Governor & Mrs. Spitzer: Doc's take is she shares responsibility for his cheating.

Trust & Adultery continued.............

Brainwashing....continued

You Changed My Life: Doc's student is now more aware than he's ever been thanks to THE SYSTEM

Best Life (Men's Magazine): Scary stats. 1 in 4 men never knew the divorce was coming and guys are 9x more likely to commit suicide than their female counterparts. If you don't think that divorce is a real problem for men then you are kidding yourself

Divorce: Continued.....

Bill, Miami: The mother (upper 30's/early 40's) and daughter (19) are BOTH interested in him (he's 32 years old). He likes the daughter. How should he handle the situation?

He embezzled over $1,000,000 for his mistress. Not the sharpest tool in the shed...........

Miscellaneous: Well, she had interest level. She's a complete loon but she did have 100% interest level in the guy when she advertised on Craig's List for a hit man to take out his wife.

Michael, Orange County: Why are group dates no good?

Clay, NYC: He's 8 weeks in with a girl and things are going great but he wants to know how often he should be seeing her.

Daniel, Little Rock: He broke up with her, got THE SYSTEM and is now wondering if he can use it's principles to win her back.

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Valentine's Day: What do you do when you're only a few dates in with her? How do you celebrate Valentine's Day?

Body Language: How does body language relate to THE SYSTEM?

John, NYC: He's been with her for 18 months and is about to be deployed overseas. They have a long distance relationship as it is and John is afraid this will destroy it. He wants to know if he should break it off now.

Brainwashing: Arguing is good for a relationship? No, says Doc.

You Changed My Life: He asked for his first home phone number after having THE SYSTEM for 2 months. Even though he didn't get it, find out why its a success story.

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Brainwashing File: 21 ways to make her fall in love with you. "Call the next day." "Tell her you can't wait to see her again." "Watch a sappy movie." This should be renamed "21 ways to guarantee she'll never love you." While all of it sounds good on the surface, it will greatly hurt your cause.

Vicious File: "He Had It Coming" is a new book by a woman that helps other women navigate divorce step-by-step. Don't you love the title?

Ego File #1: What happens when a guy rationalizes a female's behavior.

Ego File #2: His best friend bought THE SYSTEM for him as a gift but he didn't want it. Why? Too much ego.

Bryan, Columbia: He's dating a girl 40 miles away. Can he ask to meet her halfway for the first big date? Should he? Also, she deleted her profile from Yahoo Personals. Good sign?

Motivation File: No matter what always do one more thing. It's the people that continually apply extra effort that have the best chance to become winners. Get inspired by watching http://www.nc212movie.com (turn up your speakers).

Jeff, Seattle: A co-worker asked him to hang out. Another co-worker said she's sick of her boyfriend. 2 women that have kind of asked him out but not really and Jeff is in a slump. What should he do?

You Changed My Life: Tim loves the radio show and THE SYSTEM.

Pussycat File: What is a cougar? That's a younger man and an older woman. Can it work? Doc thinks no, but not for the reason you might think.

Psycho File: A 24-year old led police on a $250,000 manhunt when she wanted out of her marriage and a former beauty queen kidnaps and tortures her ex.

David, Pensacola: She came on strong with him but she lives in Pensacola and he lives in Baltimore plus she's seeing another guy.

Steve, Restin: She wanted kids. He didn't. After he revealed his choice she stood him up 2x.

Greg, Minneapolis: He's in sales for a store and a woman has come in a few times giving him buying signals for more than the merchandise. Should Greg pursue?

Getting Screwed File: You won't believe what's in the book "Get Yourself Knocked Up"

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Celebrity File: Pamela Anderson is a 3 time love loser and Britney Spears mom may want to hold off on that book she's writing.

Divorce File: He got divorced nearly 30 years ago and now his wife is trying to get MORE alimony. The scary part? She might succeed.

James, St. Cloud: He called, didn't get her. She texted back and said she was busy at the moment. When should James contact her again? Should he contact her again?

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Philosophy File: "Everyone wants to be different but no one wants to change." How does that statement relate to THE SYSTEM?

Mark, Houston: He's 6 dates in and she's going on vacation for a month. Doc says it's critical for Mark to disappear. Find out why.

Patience File: How does an ice cube and hard candy relate to THE SYSTEM?

Brainwashing Files: Love Doctor. Mr. David something or other says that when a woman says that she wants to take it slowly or doesn't want to date anyone right now, it means you're not being aggressive enough physically. Doc says its LOW INTEREST LEVEL. Find out why Mr. David's comments are brainwashing guys. Century 21. Check out their new ad where the husband is getting browbeaten by his wife. You can find the ad by putting "The Nastiest Wife on Television" into youtube's search box. Carolyn Hax #1. Carolyn advises not to hit on 2 friends. Doc (surprise, surprise) has the opposite opinion of Carolyn. Follow her advice at your own peril. Carolyn Hax #2. She broke up with him after finding an email she shouldn't have. He keeps letting her give him trouble over it. Carolyn again misses the mark on the advice. Find out Doc's take.

Don, Washington, D.C.: One of our favorite guys is back. Don runs a SYSTEM teaching group in Washington, D.C. You won't believe what was coming out of the mouth of a newly married bride at her reception. She was proud of the fact that now she has "him by the neck." Protect yourselves guys. Nasty women like this are out there ready to ruin your life.

She's got a photo of a guy on her MySpace page that completely disrespects her husband. Why do guys put up with this?

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Moment of Truth File: 2 men. 2 relationships. Each one's girl pulled a dealbreaker on them. One guy walked. The other guy cried and begged to stay. Guess which on is a SYSTEM student?

Glenn Sacks: www.glennsacks.com is the official site for our guest who is a men's and father's rights expert. Interesting conversation between Doc and him that you don't want to miss.

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Celebrity File: Michael Douglas. Why Doc feels he's a good father.

High Interest Level File: She's marrying him even though he's on death row. Ok, she might score low on the integrity scale but does have close to 100%, if not 100% interest level.

Marriage File: "One person is always right and the other one is the husband." Just a joke, right? Wrong says Doc.

Brainwashing: Arrange a private cooking session from your favorite restaurant at your home for her. Call a woman when you say you will. Sound good? On the surface, yes. Dig deeper and no. Find out why Doc thinks both are bad (plus get his opinion on more horrible advice).

Breakup File: What is the best way to break up with a woman?

You Changed My Life (David): He kept repeating the SAME mistakes with women until THE SYSTEM fixed him for good. Get your copy at www.doclove.com today and NEVER be confused by women again.

Jake (Doc Love Mail): If you've lost contact with a woman you think might have been interested in you is it appropriate to contact her through a site like Facebook for a date?

How To Keep Marriage Alive: Good advice that parallels THE SYSTEM.

Cuba Gooding, Jr.: His father was in a group that sang "Everybody Plays The Fool." How does that song relate to THE SYSTEM?

YOU CHANGED MY LIFE: Jesper says he's become a much stronger man since getting THE SYSTEM.

Robert, Panama City: Can you have TOO much success with women? Robert is wondering what's going on since all of his dates lately turn into the woman aggressively pursuing him.

Jermaine, NYC: Notices how a new Subway commercial is making men look like idiots and wants Doc's opinion on whether Paul McCartney should be dating since he's tied up in a messy divorce.

Jay, Seattle: Can you violate THE SYSTEM if you're not interested in a woman? What is the best way to call women you are interested in?

Good Advice: She says he's too old for his 1996 Miata. Find out how a couple of car guys give him advice that parallels THE SYSTEM.

Brainwashing: Add a couple drops of "pheremones" to your colonge and the women will come running. Right? Not so fast says Doc.

We lead the segment off with 3 great "You Changed My Life" letters.

Jeff, Seattle: She text messaged him right after the date gushing about what a good time she had. THE SYSTEM says he's supposed to wait 5-9 days between dates to contact her. What should he do?

Gift Giving: After 6 months of dating you should not only buy a girl a gift but tell her you like spending time with her. Gift giving is ok. Telling her you like spending time with her is not. Find out why.

Brendan, Spokane: How can you tell the difference between a shy woman and one that isn't interested?

Jim, Vancouver: He's had 3 dates with her and she's disappeared because she just had surgery. How should Jim contact her? What should he be doing?

You Changed My Life Letter: The SYSTEM helped a student in his karate training. Remember guys, The SYSTEM goes beyond dating. It helps in ALL aspects of your life.

Aerial, Everett: He and his buddy each met a girl and went out on a double date for their first date. MISTAKE. Find out why Doc says "no group dates."

David Spade and George Clooney: Why did they make our "Celebrity File" today?

Benjamin, Manchester: She didn't want to go out with him on her birthday. Problem? Doc says no.

Wedding File: The average cost of a wedding is $38,000. Find out where Doc thinks the money should go instead of "the big day."

Bob, Cleveland: Should he lose his goatee? Will that help him attract more women?

Observation File: Doc can tell just by a photograph that the photographer understands women. Find out why.

Oprah Magazine: 2 gems. The first deals with physical attractiveness. It doesn't matter according to Oprah. The second? Jane Fonda. Need we say more?

Education File: What do you say when your mind goes blank around a woman?

Mike, Orange County: What is the best way to handle a woman that backs off?

Why aren't men challenges as Doc advises?